Posted by loswhit in Worship Leading

I did this 2 weeks ago and the post was shared over 1k times so I think it is of use.
And I don’t consider myself an expert by any means. I have just been doing this a long time.
So I’m kinda like that community college professor. The one who never really got rich doing what he is good at, but he’s filled with more knowledge on the subject than he knows what to do with.
Welcome to Worship Leader Community College.
So here is the second installment of tips and short bursts of ideas to help you take your worship leading to the next level.

1. All it takes is a touch.
Before every worship set. Before every one of them…
I go to as many people in the seats as I can for a touch. One handshake. One hug. One connecting point.
You will not believe the difference come your set.
When people feel a sense of connection, even just a hello, they remember.
Most of the time they don’t even know I’m the worship leader. They just think I’m a friendly guy who is welcoming them to the church.
I feel almost like I’m working the room because I ;iterally go from person to person.
But I am.
I am working at creating a personal moment so when I walk up on stage everyone in the room when I start the set is thinking, “Hey. Thats the guy who just said hey to me.”
And that connection goes a LONG way in building trust.
And as a worship leader, trust is more important than an amazing voice or fantastic communication skills.
Get out of the green room.
Get into the pews.

2. Let the preacher preach.
I’m a talking worship leader. I believe we all should be.
But don’t go up there and spit out points 2-4 of his message just because you heard it in the first service and think they work well with introducing the songs.

3. A genuine frown is better than a plastic smile.
If you and your wife just had a huge fight on the way to church, if you are grieving a death from the week before, allow your healing to lead.
Don’t act like everything is fantastic.
It’s not.
And it’s ok.
Lead from a place where people can walk alongside you and see the reality of life as you lead as opposed to acting like everything in life is brilliant.

So there you have it.
Class dismissed.

  • Michelle

    Great, great, great stuff. Thank you Los.

  • Laura Milner

    Great! This is good advice for anyone in ministry. Going out and being a person makes people feel connected to you. It’s hard to feel like a pastor knows what you’re going through when you only see them on stage. Never be too cool or “famous” to get out there an touch someone!

    LOVED this post Carlos.

  • Joel

    thanks man…loving your classes so far!

  • http://Www.theworshiprevolution.net Lester Ong

    Point number one is brilliant. Couldn’t agree more. Thanks for the insights!

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  • Kayla Grace

    Love it. I’m praying I’ll get the opportunity to regularly lead worship again once I get plugged into a church when I move to Montana, and I so appreciate this advice. I love the first point and find that to be so important for any speaker/leader. Connecting with the community is the purpose of your leadership anyways! This level of interaction before the set is priceless.

  • http://t.co/2THA0ojC Jason Cormier

    Great points. Thanks for always keeping it real.

  • http://daniellenewsome.com Danielle Newsome

    Wow Carlos…thanks so much. These are great tips and I totally agree with you

  • Anthony

    Big +1 on #2. One sermon.

  • Dillan Howell

    I believe #3 is the difference between a performer and a worship leader. Great blog.

  • http://dkzody.wordpress.com dkzody

    Number 2 is true, whether at the beginning or the end. A worship leader does not need to repreach the sermon after the preacher finishes.

  • http://www.rayhausler.com Ray Hausler

    I came to the Bellevue campus last month on my way through town just so I could worship with you and your practice of #1 helped move me from “fanboy” to being able to worship God with just that simple handshake.

  • Justin DAVIS

    good stuff man, takes me back to NAS singing “I love you with the love of the Lord” making it personal is something i try to do with just words too often. time to get to hand shaking :) .

  • http://www.theseourtreasures.blogspot.com Becky

    Love #1. Connect connect connect, and let us worship together.

  • http://www.beckycastlemiller.com Becky Castle Miller

    This needs to be a regular feature. Love the graphic. Thanks for sharing your knowledge.

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